aaronweiner wrote: ↑Sun Sep 27, 2020 2:45 pm
If it wasn't absurd I wouldn't have winked. Really, I was just hoping you'd give me a rousing defense of Little Hurt.
I know man, I'm just sensitive to these topics. I'm frustrated by what passes for debate these days. The degree of intellectual dishonesty that is commonplace is terrifying, and basically has derailed all discourse. It's everywhere. Not to be overly harsh, because I know you were joking, but "What about FTIII" is a distraction. It's not a legitimate argument and in a debate would be meant to force the debater to spend time debunking an absurd claim while the maker of that statement slips past the argument and in the process convinces a few gullible people of it's validity.
Distractions.
Gaslighting.
Whataboutism.
Star man arguments.
Ad-homenin
Personal attacks
It goes on and on and on. And because people mimic what they see on TV, and have been mentally poisoned by politicians and cable news, it's now commonplace to use these techniques in every day to day discussion of a topic.
I literally spend 80% of my time in any debate demonstrating to the person that what they think is a valid argument is in fact, nonsense. You never get to the meat of the discussion.
I am exhausted by this. I am frightened for what it has done to our society and it's ability to hold civil discourse.
So my reaction to these types of statements, even when when made in jest, is one of offense and anger. Just because I'm exhausted by them. We should all stop doing this. Perhaps we should stop doing this in jest, until it stops being so normal that people can't tell when others are serious or not without a winking emoji.
Don't mind me, I'll just go back to my no fun corner of the universe.